Comfort and Joy

I will turn their mourning into gladness; I will
give them comfort and joy instead of sorrow.
Jeremiah 31:13
Showing posts with label memphis. Show all posts
Showing posts with label memphis. Show all posts

Saturday, January 26, 2013

True joy

We spent last Saturday at Shelby Farms park. The boys loved being outside and David and I loved the fresh air as well. The sequence of pictures below make me think of the word Joy...the boys and David are both showing so much joy in these pictures. I am truly so thankful for a husband and father who loves and adores his boys and knows how important it is to spend quality time with them. So thankful! IMG_8225 IMG_8227 IMG_8228 IMG_8232 IMG_8234 IMG_8235 IMG_8236 IMG_8237 IMG_8238 IMG_8239 IMG_8240

Friday, September 14, 2012

A little recap

We have had a busy but fun last few weeks.  It has been physically and emotionally draining because of the anniversary of Forrest's birthday but has also been a sweet time with my boys.  I feel like we are finally getting into a rhythm and one we desperately needed.  It has taken us well over a month to get in the swing of things and I am happy to report that I think we may be swimming now instead of drowning.  The move and transition back to Memphis did not go as smoothly as I expected with the family.  The boys desperately miss the slowness of Boston and have really become homebodies.  They both enjoy school but miss home when they are there.  I think they also miss each other.  In Boston they were never away from each other so that has been a new thing as well.  Mondays and Fridays we don't have to be at school or anywhere else for that matter so we take our time and try to do something fun together.

Here are some things we have been up to lately:

Our church had a carnival night for the kids and the boys loved riding Thomas the Train choo choo with their buddy Bo.
Riding the choo choo at church @gracecthompson
We enjoyed an afternoon treat at our favorite cupcake shop, Muddy's. Enjoying a Muddy's cupcake!  Ending the week on a high note!
We bought a new kitchen table that had to be assembled so Dingdad and daddy spent time teaching the boys about tools and assembling things. It was the highlight of the day for sure. Thankful for granddads and dads that take extra time to teach their boys how to be men. #excitedaboutmynewkitchentable
We visited the Farmers Market and enjoyed some honey sticks. Enjoying a honey stick at the Farmers Market!
Spot, the Pre-K class stuffed animal, came home with Austin on a Thursday which meant he spent 5 whole nights with us. Quite a treat to my little guy. Welcome Spot the dog to the Spence home. PreK mascot!
We had flowers displayed at our church in memory of our precious son. Beautiful flowers at our church today in memory of my precious son.
Sweet friends remembered our son and loved on us during a difficult day. Thankful for sweet friends who remember us on this hard day. @caseycockrum Untitled
The boys and I went on a long bike ride on Forrest's birthday. I thought a bike ride was cheaper than therapy. =)
Best therapy...biking with my 2 boys!
We met a friend while on our bike ride.
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David got off work a little early and went with us to pick out flowers and place them at Forrest's grave site.
  Yesterday was a good day spending time together as a family and remembering our precious boy.
We spent a fun afternoon at My Big Backyard with my best friend Bobbie and her 2 boys. Fun afternoon at My Big Backyard.
Austin's school had their annual Boosterthon where the kids ran laps to raise money for the school. He didn't want to participate but once he was there he loved it. Fun morning at CMDS boosterthon!  Proud of my little runner.
We spent this morning at the zoo with Bobbie and her youngest Charley. Fun morning at the zoo with Bobbie and Charley!
While at the zoo we fed the giraffes for the first time. Austin loved every minute of it...Miller was a little unsure of the whole thing.
The boys loved feeding the giraffes for the first time at the zoo.
I am really trying to soak up this time with the boys before baby girl makes her presence in 3.5 months. The weather has turned nice and we are enjoying being outside and together.

*Thank you to everyone who commented, emailed, texted, and called on Forrest's birthday.  It meant so much to me.

Monday, August 27, 2012

Last few weeks...

Life around here has been C.R.A.Z.Y with a serious capital C!  Between moving, stuff not making it for 15 days, starting school, starting a medical practice, being in charge of a race...life has not slowed down long enough to even sit down for very long much less blog.  Now that the race is over I feel like I can breathe a little.  So a little recap of the last few weeks:


Sweet friends took the boys a couple times so we could get a few things done. So thankful for good friends who take our children swimming so we can buy mattresses @jenniebrooks23
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I spent some time visiting with my precious first born...its good to be near his grave site again. It's good to be back in Memphis near this precious boy. Missed visiting with him.
We did a little celebrating before the first day of school. Eating a cupcake to celebrate 1st day of school tomorrow.
We started Pre-K.
First day of Pre-K
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We started Parents Day Out and slept in a big boy bed for the first time. Big day for Milker yesterday. 1st day of PDO and 1st time sleeping in a big boy bed.
Our stuff finally arrived after 15 days. Definitely a sight for sore eyes...15 days without your things is t.o.u.g.h!
I went on a date with my love to celebrate his first day of work. My hot date #ilovefreebabysitting
I obviously didn't get enough sleep before the race but there was so much to do that sleep had to come last.
Probably should have gone to bed earlier!  Forrest Spence 5k in T minus 8.5 hours.
The race was a success even though it rained (I will blog more about the 5k when I get the pictures back from my photographer). Start line of the Forrest Spence 5k
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So thankful to have this man by my side through all of life. Love this man!
So great to see some of my favorite NICU families at the race with their precious children (that is water from the rain not sweat on my shirt).Loved seeing my precious NICU families at the race! @chuviolin @bethanychu
2 of our very favorite families stayed with us over the race weekend. So thankful the McGuigans and Robinsons they made the trip! Truly a wonderful weekend!  Loved having 2 of our closest friends and their families stay with us this weekend. @kaceemcguigan
My naked chef helped me cook dinner.
My naked chef
There is a lot more to blog about but I'm tired and have tons more to catch up on.  Be back soon!

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Road trip recap

We made it to Memphis last Monday but unfortunately are stuff didn't make it.  The truck from Boston is taking 16 days.  What?!?  Definitely ridiculous but what can you do.  We thankfully had a Pod in Memphis that we left for 14 months that had a few things but right now we are pretty much living in an empty house.  There were some cross words shared with our friends over at United Moving Company. Not sure if they picked the right woman to mess with...20 weeks pregnant, a 2 and 3 year old, and 2 weeks away from the biggest event she puts on...this woman needs her stuff!!!  We are praying it makes it by Wednesday.

I took pictures along the way on our road trip for memories.  The road trip really was wonderful.  The boys did awesome and we were really proud of them.  The longest drive was a little over 7 hours.  Every other day we tried to keep it closer to 5 or less.  We watched lots of movies, colored, played with toys, and made numerous stops.  It was so great to catch up with old friends along the way as well.  Definitely something we will look back upon and smile!

Road trip day 1: packing up the house, loading the car, saying goodbye to our Boston apartment, and driving as far as we could make it.

Goodbye Boston, hello Memphis (in a week)
Road trip day 2: waking up in a hotel in Danbury, CT, watching movies in the car, stopping for lunch, ending the day in Washington, DC meeting David's high school best friend's new baby boy, Whit.
Road trip day 2...woke up in a hotel in CT, stopped to eat lunch, on our way to DC Road trip rest of day 2...David meeting his high school best friends son Whit then eating Mexican with friends

Road trip day 3: touring DC, seeing the White House, Washington monument and Lincoln Monument, enjoying the Air and Space Museum, seeing an old college friend who works in the Senate, and taking hard naps.
Road trip day 3...the White House, the monuments, Air and Space Museum, then out cold asleep...good day in DC
Road trip day 4: longest drive of the trip (7 hours) and staying with great friends in Huntersville, NC.
Road trip day 4: said goodbye to DC, 7 hours in the car, seeing friends in Charlotte.
Road Trip Day 5: drove from Charlotte to Knoxville, spent the night with wonderful friends and enjoyed catching up and seeing their home and children.
Road trip day 5: drove from Charlotte to Knoxville, spent the night with wonderful friends and enjoyed catching up and seeing their home & children.
Road trip day 6: driving from Knoxville to Nashville, seeing our sister and brother in laws new home, and playing with cousins. 
Road trip day 6: driving from Knoxville to Nashville, seeing our sister and brother in laws new home, and playing with cousins.
Road trip day 7: making it to Memphis and seeing our new home! Untitled